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Our beloved husband, dad, brother, uncle, pa-pa Theodore B. “Ted” Rastorfer, 73, of Kansas City, MO, passed away March 11, 2010 after a courageous year-long battle with cancer. Ted was born February 2, 1937, in Boonville, MO, the son of Herschel L. Rastorfer and Nancy M. "Pootsie" (Jewett) Rastorfer. He was a 1955 graduate from South High School in Denver, CO and attended Colorado A&M College (now Colorado State Univ). Ted was honorably discharged from the U.S. Army in 1958, after proudly serving an overseas tour in Germany with the Hqs 7th Army. Shortly after his discharge, Ted moved to Kansas City, Missouri and began working for Hallmark Cards in 1960. While working for Hallmark, he earned his Associates Degree in Business from Longview Community College.
On January 26, 1963, Ted married Mary Ann Tonnar in Carrollton, MO. Ted was an active supporter and sideline cheerleader as he watched his three children excel in sports, music and the arts. Most recently, Ted was blessed with the arrival of his only grandson, Jack. Jack Theodore, named after Ted, instantly became the apple of grandpa's eye. Ted's face would light up every time Jack entered the room and yelled "Hi Papa."
He retired from Hallmark Cards in 1999, after more than 38 loyal years of service as a senior graphic arts engineer.
Throughout his life, Ted loved playing sports with co-workers, golf with his brothers and spending time joking and laughing with his sisters.
Ted's happiest times were spent at large family gatherings with his in-laws and nieces and nephews. Ted was a kind and gentle man that lived by the Golden Rule, "Do unto others as you would have others do unto you." He will be greatly missed by his family and many friends.
Survivors include his wife of 47 years, Mary Ann, sons Craig of Overland Park, and Todd (Kristina) & grandson Jack of Lenexa, daughter Gail (Dan Rodden) Chicago, IL, brothers Bob (Rosalie) KCMO, David (Phoebe) Columbia, MO, John (Ann) Gladstone, MO, sisters Nancy L. Burns (Mike) McKinney, TX, Mary K. "Myrt" Bauer (Bill) Los Gatos, CA, aunt Bennie Leonberger of Boonville, MO, and 18 nieces & nephews around the world. He was preceded in death by his parents, Herschel L. & Nancy M. “Pootsie” Rastorfer, and brother Roy. Visitation 6-7:30pm with prayer service to follow, March 17 at St. Matthew Apostle Church, 8001 Longview Road, KCMO 64134. Funeral mass 11am, March 18 at St. Matthew Apostle. Private burial. Donations can be made in lieu of flowers to St. Matthew Apostle Church or KC Hospice House. |
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From: Dan Rastorfer
Relationship: Nephew
Dear Aunt Mary Ann, Craig, Gail and Todd...
Just wanted you to know how sorry I am too hear this news.
I know its tough but Mom says you guys had a real chance to say goodbye. Sorry I wasnt there to do the same...
I just met Cassie in Bangkok and we were both talking about this but didnt realize he was this close.
Were all so lucky to be a part of this crazy crew...
Whos going to keep Uncle Bob in line now?
Love to all of you guys,
Dan
Sent: 03/13/2010
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From: Darin Bauer
Relationship: Nephew
He was always nice, fun and caring to us cousins since we were very young, its really sad to see him go, I have to believe there is a greater beyond for him.
Sent: 03/13/2010
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From: Todd Rastorfer
Relationship: Son
Thanks to mom, Craig, Gail, Dan, Kristina and Jack for being so strong and resilient throughout this past year. I know dad was so proud of us for fighting for him day in and day out. I have never been more honored to be a part of this family. Dad was and will always be our hero! I love you, dad. Thanks for always being there for us.
Sent: 03/13/2010
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From: Jim Kelli and Kenzi Jones
Relationship: friends of Todd
Our deepest sympathy to your family. I am so sorry for your loss, and greatful that he did get to know his grandson.
Jim, Kelli, and Kenzi Jones
Sent: 03/14/2010
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From: Robert Leonberger
Relationship: Cousin
The Leonberger Family of Jefferson City is thinking about the Rastorfer Family right now. We will miss Ted. What a great guy! You have our condolences.
Sent: 03/15/2010
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From: Gene & Gloria Lucero
Relationship: Friend of Todd & Kristina & Jack
Todd & Kristina So sorry for your loss.
Sent: 03/15/2010
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From: Jane Alderman
Relationship: Friend of Gail
Dear Gail and Family, I am sending my thoughts your way. I am so sorry to hear your news. I know what a Champion your Dad was. Love, Jane
Sent: 03/15/2010
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From: Bill LaFever
Relationship: Friend of Bob
Bob, Joan and I were so sorry to hear of Teds passing. I know he has been sick for awhile and I am sure you are relieved that his suffering is over. I lost my older brother to cancer 3 years ago, and that is how we felt. I didnt know Ted wel lbut I know the whole Rastorfer family is very close and will miss Ted beyond words. Please accept Joan and my condolences, Bob. We hope to see you soon We all miss you in Bella Vista. Our prayers are with you and your family.
Sent: 03/17/2010
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From: Michele McKeever
Relationship: caregiver
Dear Maryanne and all of Teds family,
Our hospice job is a bittersweet one. I am so very glad that I had the chance to meet all of you and so very sad at the circumstance. I will never forget Sir Ted, some people are more special than others... It was my honor to serve your wonderful family.
Peace be with you always,
Michele
CNA from the House
Sent: 04/06/2010
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From: Don Wittenberg
Relationship: Friend
Dear Mary Ann and family.
We were so sorry to hear of Teds passing. Ted was one of Dons longest Hallmark acquaintances. Don thought very highly of Ted. Your family will be in our thoughts and prayers as you grieve for your loved one.
Don & Diana Wittenberg
Sent: 04/11/2010
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From: Diane Sholtis
Relationship: Friend of Todd
Todd, Kristina, Jack and Family,
We are so very sorry to hear of the loss of your father! Please accept our deepest and most sincere condolences! Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time!
Your friends,
Di, Chris, Olivia and Nico Sholtis
Sent: 04/27/2010
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