Lt. Col. Michel Ernest Hess (Retired)

Feb 02, 1942 - Jan 06, 2018

Lt. Col. Michel Ernest Hess passed away in Overland Park, KS, at the age of 75. Mike was born in Horton, KS to Norm and Lorain Hess.  He grew up in Longview, WA and graduated from Eastern Washington State College (now EWU) in the ROTC program, where he also captained the football team. Colonel Hess received his commission as a Regular Army 2nd lieutenant in the infantry branch. He completed his officer training at Ft. Benning, GA where he also graduated from the Army Ranger School and Airborne School. He then embarked on a 20 year career that took him around the globe. He spent 3 combat tours in Vietnam commanding infantry companies twice and a tour as a special operations team leader. His awards include the Silver Star, 6 Bronze Stars with 2 for valor, 2 Purple Hearts, 2 Air Medals and an Army Commendation Medal for valor. He is a master parachutist and holder of the Combat Infantry Badge. He retired with honors in 1984 as a Lieutenant Colonel. He also holds graduate degrees in counseling and organizational psychology.

 

After assignments throughout the globe, Mike settled in Kansas City for his civilian life, where he could pursue his passions of golf, hunting, watching football, helping fellow vets through the Veterans Ministry. His dedication to ministry involved many facets through Church of the Resurrection, including; volunteering with his wife Sue as Congressional Care Ministers, being an active as bible study leader and Alpha, Community Life and assisting with job coaching for people within the church. Aside from his volunteering, Mike was also the proud founder and leader of RezVets, a veteran’s care ministry dedicated to saving veteran’s lives and assisting veterans and their families in achieving balance in their lives.

 

Lt. Col. Hess's passion for supporting veterans spanned well beyond his leadership of RezVets. He was instrumental in the development of the first Veterans Treatment Court in the State of Kansas. For the court, Hess helped to recruit and train veteran mentors (including the mentor coordinator), and supported veteran participants both personally and through his ministry. Mike was also a significant contributor to other veterans' organizations, such as Army One Source where he provided education to professionals helping the military community. He was a strong advocate for "Pets for Vets", a national organization which pairs veterans with companion rescue dogs. He also served as a mentor for "Kids 4 Vets", a local student-run organization which encourages kids to support veterans in our community. Finally, Hess was a pioneer in the developing field of Moral Injury, through his church and community outreach. 

 

To say he led an active life would be a discredit to his legacy - he took up running in his thirties and trained himself to achieve a sub three hour marathon. His infectious personality wasn’t reserved just for his golfing and hunting buddies either. Whether it was the postman, receptionist, or the fellow sitting next to him at a game, Mike never let an opportunity to connect with humanity pass him by.

 

Mike is survived by his loving wife Sue; his children Damon (Sabrina), Tobin (Gladys) and Mignon (Traver) as well and Sue’s children Jeni (Tyler), Kristen (Dan), and Steve and 11 grandchildren. He is preceded in death by his parents, twin sister Linda Holstein

 

In lieu of flowers, please consider contributing to your choice of the following organizations: RezVets, Church of the Resurrection Alpha Light House Fund, Veterans Treatment Court Foundation, Attn: Colleen Abraham, 100 N. Kansas, Olathe, KS  66061, Pets For Vets www.petsforvets.com, Kids For Vets, https://www.kids4vets.com/

. OR American Cancer Society 

 

A memorial service will be held 1:00 pm, Wednesday, January 24, Church of the Resurrection, Wesley Chapel, 13720 Roe Ave., Leawood, Kansas, 66224.

Services

Additional Service: Memorial Service
Location: Church of the Resurrection, Wesley Chapel
Address: 13720 Roe Ave.
City: Leawood
State: Kansas
Zip Code: 66224
Date of Service: Jan 24, 2018
Time of Service: 1:00 pm
Additional Information: No Additional Information Added

Condolences

Dave and Mellissa Allen Jan 16, 2018

Friend ,Overland Park ,Kansas

May God's grace and blessing find Mike to heaven. It was our pleasure to know Mike. I only wish we would have met earlier in our lives. We pray for Mike and his family. He was an outstanding man, and I'll cherish our time with him. He served his country proudly, and served our Lord,Jesus Christ, humbly. Well done sir. Well done. May the grace of God and the Holy Spirit be with you always friend. Amen.

Sharon Marsh Jan 17, 2018

Colonel Hess was a wonderful mentor to my granddaughter, Libby, kids4vets.com. She and her brother Jack, respected, admired, and loved him and, I'm sure, are heartbroken at this loss. The way he took time with the children is a mark of what a great man he was.

H C Palmer Jan 18, 2018

Friend ,Lenexa ,Kansas

Goodbye, Mike (for a while) and a smart salute. You were (are) a great friend and Jesus-like human being. I already miss you. I'm amazed how you endured these past months and I'm so sorry you had to do that.

Brad Jan 21, 2018

Friend ,Lee’s Summit ,Missouri

I am so shocked to hear of Mike’s passing. My sincerest condolences to Mike’s family. Mike served as a mentor of mine for many years at several different companies. Mike was a gracious and highly intelligent man. He will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with Mike’s family.

Rob and Karen McWhirt Jan 21, 2018

friend ,Lees Summit ,Missouri

Our heartfelt sympathy to Sue and the Hess family. May the beautiful memories of your time together ease the grief and pain of losing a very special person. "God gives us memory so that we will have roses in December" J.M. Barrie

Mary Haines Jan 21, 2018

friend ,Overland Park ,Kansas

Mike was an amazing man. Even though I didn't meet him until he was retired, his military service sounds almost like my dad's so I feel like I knew him even then. As a fellow CCM at Church of the Resurrection, I know he poured his passion for the military into helping Vets, and also faced his cancer bravely. It was never about the cancer.... it was always about helping others. So many lives have been blessed because of Mike. It was a tough last year, but now Mike is finally at peace. He's on a new journey because he believed that the "worst thing is never the last thing." Our prayers are with you Sue, and the rest of the Hess family. Godspeed, Mike. We will miss you!

Robert (Bob) Heinemann Jun 17, 2019

Fellow graduate of EWSC and ROTC ,Cheney ,Washington

To another fellow graduate and fellow ROTC cadet. I also retired after 22 years of active and reserve service. God Bless you and all your family.

Carole( nee Shellenberger) Pyles Jun 17, 2019

college mate ,San Antonio ,Texas

I probably knew Michael at Eastern. I see we were within three months of our birth dates. He lived a very good life doing much for others - - Service above self. He will be greatly missed and he did make a positive difference in our World. May God bless you all - - And He will.