Thomas L. Kincaid, beloved husband, father, grandfather, brother, and friend, passed away peacefully on June 2, 2025. He leaves behind a legacy of love, laughter, and quiet strength. Tom was born on March 21,1946, in Kansas City, Missouri, to Joseph L. and Kathryn L. Kincaid.
A successful businessman, Tom was a respected partner at Bill Hicks Chevrolet in Kansas City. He brought dedication, integrity, and a sharp wit to his work, earning the admiration of colleagues and customers alike.
In 1991, Tom married the love of his life, Vickie. Together, they shared more than three decades of love, companionship, and countless adventures. Their bond was evident to all who knew them.
Tom found joy in gardening, family gatherings, and simply being surrounded by those he loved. Though soft-spoken, he was a steady and comforting presence, always ready with a warm smile, a helping hand, or the kind of humor that could lighten a moment without ever needing the spotlight.
He was preceded in death by his parents, Joseph and Kathryn, and his brother Richard. He is survived by his beloved wife Vickie, his siblings James Kincaid, Robert Kincaid, and Aloah Kincaid, and his children: Robin Starr (Les), Kevin Morris (Offie), Tricia Crawford (Jason), Thomas Kincaid, and Christopher Kincaid. Tom was also the proud grandfather of nine adoring grandchildren: Eric (Courtney), Dylan (Kristin), Ryan, Victoria, Nathan, Lillian, Jake, Grant, and Ty, and great grandfather to Caysen. Tom also leaves behind many other family members and friends who will sadly miss him.
Tom’s steady spirit will remain forever in the hearts of all who had the privilege of knowing him. He will be deeply missed by his ever-growing family.
A celebration of Tom’s life will be held on Saturday, June 14, 2025, from 1:00 to 4:00 PM at the Stratford Place Clubhouse, 12101 Earnshaw Street, Overland Park, KS 66213.
It has been a pleasure to know Tom for many years. I know that he always enjoyed his trips out to Lake Havasu with Vickie, and spending time at Robin’s pool. I am so glad he was able to get his last trip in before his untimely death. He was a true gentleman and a wonderful man. He will be sorely missed. May he rest in peace.
Friend ,LAKE HAVASU CITY ,Arizona
Mike and I send our love and prayers to Vickie and family at this time of grief. He will be missed in so many ways. I remember Tom as a gentleman and always polite. I was always impressed what loving care he gave to Vickie. How the Angels must be rejoicing to receive Tom into there arms. How thankful I am to have know him. God Bless Jan and Mike Sweeney
Friend ,Overland Park ,Kansas
Vicki Bill and I are so sad to hear of Tom’s death and we send our condolences to you all. He was a fine man.
