Patricia Joan (Reiling) Allegri

May 23, 1936 - Mar 13, 2026

Patricia Joan Allegri, 89, of Mission Hills, Kansas, passed away peacefully on March 13, 2026, surrounded by the family she loved.

Born May 23, 1936, in Kansas City, Kansas, Patricia grew up in a large German and Irish Catholic family where traditions of faith, hospitality, and strong family bonds shaped her life. She attended Bishop Ward High School and Donnelly College.  Her appreciation for beauty, style, interior design, and hospitality was reflected in the warm, welcoming home she created for her family, and she modeled thoughtful stewardship of the Earth in all she did.

In her youth she met the love of her life, Thomas J. Allegri. They married and shared 70 years together, raising seven children while building and operating PRS, the healthcare business they founded, serving countless patients and families.

Patricia’s greatest joy was her family. She and Tom made their Mission Hills home a lively gathering place for family, friends, and neighbors. A gifted cook, she was known for elaborate dinners and her love of French and Italian cuisine, meals that brought generations together.

She had a lifelong love of travel and discovery, planning family trips across the United States and Europe. Grandchildren especially treasure memories of traveling with her, with even long car rides becoming adventures filled with games, drawings, and laughter. Patricia also shared her love of music, art, and history through concerts, museums, and performances.

A devoted member of the Catholic community, Patricia sang in the church choir and served in the Daughters of the American Revolution. She contributed to Shalom House and the Alter Society, quietly living her faith through service and generosity.

Patricia will be remembered for her warmth, remarkable cooking, love of travel and culture, and her gift for bringing people together. Through family gatherings, shared adventures, and a home always open to others, she created a legacy that will live on for generations.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Mabel and Gil Reiling. She is survived by her 7 children and their spouses, 19 grandchildren, 10 great-grandchildren, and 3 siblings and their families.

A Funeral Mass will be held 11:00am, Friday, March 20 at St. Ann Catholic Church, 7231 Mission Rd., Prairie Village, Kansas 66208. Memorail contributions can be made to the Kansas City Art Institue at Give - Kansas City Art Institute.

 

A video tribute for Patricia can be viewed here: Patricia Allegri Tribute Video

 

Services

Additional Service: Funeral Mass
Location: St. Ann Catholic Church
Address: 7231 Mission Rd.
City: Prairie Village
State: Kansas
Zip Code: 66208
Date of Service: Mar 20, 2026
Time of Service: 11:00 am
Additional Information: No Additional Information Added

Video Gallery

Condolences

Patrice Thompson Mar 16, 2026

Mary Allegri's friend ,Leawood

I was sadden to hear the news of Mrs Allergi's passing. I have the fondest memories at the Allegri home in Mission Hills. Mary being my dearest friend all through high school ( Bishop Miege) my twin sister, and I would stay at the Allegri home after school many weekends .. Mrs. Alllegri was so hospitable. Our warmest condolences and prayers are with the Allegri Family .. ❤️ Patrice Renner Thompson

Jeanne Blomster Mar 16, 2026

One of Mom’s beloved friends ,Kansas City

So sorry to hear of Pat’s passing. My parents loved being friends with her and Tom for decades! She was one of my favorites from Mom’s bridge club. Pat always had a smile on her face and a funny story to share. My sincere condolences to the family.

Susan Lazzo Mar 18, 2026

Classmate and Friend of Paul ,Boston

Paul, I send my condolences on the loss of your Mother. May she rest in peace.

Susan Allegri Schwartze Mar 18, 2026

Neice ,Lee's Summit ,Missouri

Aunt Pat was full of life and smiling all the time! She was so kind to us when our own mother died. She was a huge comfort. Much love to Uncle Tom and my cousins.

Lucy Nelson-Kemether Mar 19, 2026

Niece ,Oklahoma City, OK

I think Cousin Susan said it best I will always remember Aunt PattiJo with her kindness and smile shining bright. My thoughts and prayers are with Uncle Tommy and their beloved family. Much love to you all.

Kathy Coleman Mar 23, 2026

Friend ,Fruitland Park ,Florida

It is with great respect & appreciation that I write this note of love & sympathy to the family of the beloved Patricia Allegri. I met Pat the summer of 1978 when my family & I moved from our native Florida to Mission Hills. We had never lived outside of Florida and weren't sure we would be able to adjust to KC, & especially to Mission Hills. The day the movers brought our furniture & belongings I received a note from a neighbor 2 doors away. Yes, it was Patty inviting us for hamburgers that very night. I responded & told her that I had 3 daughters & she said, " that's great, I have 7 children, bring them all!" That genuine act of love & kindness was just the beginning of many more & we soon became close friends. Unfortunately, after 5 yrs we moved back to FL for business reasons & we rarely saw each other. I still treasure those bargain hunting shopping trips we took, the wonderful chats we had, her cooking tips, her insight into so many subjects, her zest for life, her love of God. & all the wonderful get-togethers she arranged in Mission Hills including the 4th of July Parade & Picnic, & the dinner party she held at their home for a delegation of young Russian students! Tom & Pat and their precious children hold a very special place in our hearts. We were extremely blessed & honored to know & love Pat and to call her "friend" as well as "the best neighbor we've ever had"! With love & deep sympathy, John 3:16 Kathy/Richard Coleman & daughters