Bettina Walls, Age: 81

Oct 25, 1944 - Mar 13, 2026

Bettina Walls of Kansas City, MO, passed away on March 13, 2026, at her Tiffany Springs memory care home. She valiantly endured Parkinson’s disease for many years, and more recently, dementia started taking its toll on her mind. She continued to live life fighting two difficult conditions due to her love of her family. 
 
Bettina was born to Charles (Pete) and Betty Elliott in Norman, Oklahoma, on October 25, 1944, and she was never given a middle name, much to her chagrin. After graduating from Jefferson City High School, she attended the University of Missouri prior to transferring to Missouri Valley College in Marshall, MO, where she met her husband, Barry Robert Walls. 
 
Bettina and Barry started a family and had two wonderfully-awesome but obnoxiously-rambunctious boys - Michael Andrew Walls (Kansas City, MO) and Brian Christopher Walls (Cape Coral, FL), with just under three years separating them in age. Those two were typical boys, playing outside until dark and often antogonizing each other into an argument or fight. But through all those fights that were indeed met with discipline, Bettina always loved her boys immensely and was proud to “show them off” to anyone who would listen.  She attended every football game, basketball game, track meet or any other activity involving her boys, and they felt her love and support always. 
 
Bettina’s boys finally matured, settled down and provided “Mimi” with four grandchildren whom she loved very much - Jordyn and Lauryn (from Chris) and Alison and Nate (from Mike). Mimi also loved her two daughter-in-laws, TIffany (Chris) and Laurie (Mike), who always made time for her and included her in so many life events.
 
Bettina had a small army of great friends, and she found so much joy in hosting them at her house where she would conjure up a new recipe or she would go out to eat with them over a glass of wine and chips and salsa. Her friends were plentiful, and they loved her like family. One of the many reasons people loved Bettina was because of her wicked sense of humor, which defines why she was holding out from passing until the timing was deemed just right by her - Friday the 13th.
 
There are no memorial services for Bettina, as she used to consistently tell her two sons that they would NOT put together a service for her, no matter the circumstances. She was adamant and consistent about this choice, so the boys always promised to honor her wishes. Although services will not be held for everyone to hear about what an outstanding mother, grandmother and friend she was, she will be missed by many. 
 
Plans will be to bury her cremains in the Woodlawn Cemetery, 701 S. Noland Road, Independence, MO, 64050, where she will someday be next to her cousin who was also a great friend, JoAnn Schlueter. 

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Ron Waldbillig Mar 23, 2026

Family ,Kansas City

Rest in peace Bettina, thanks for all the memories and great times together. You will be missed by your family and many friends.

Jo Schlueter Mar 23, 2026

Cousin ,Indep

I will always cherish our many times together Your my almost sister and I will be thinking of you forever. Jo

Kent Huyser Mar 23, 2026

Friend ,Liberty, MO

A live well lived, full of love for family and friends. My memory of Bettina is that she was always so kind and hospitable, and full of great love and pride for her two boys. She will be missed!

Jason and Lysa Little Mar 23, 2026

Friends ,Prairie Village

Mike and Laurie, we are sorry for your loss but glad that there is peace. Hugs from The Littles.

Stephanie Nugent Mar 23, 2026

Friend ,Gladstone

Mike, Laurie, Chris , Tiffany and families I am so sorry for your loss of my very good friend of many years. I will miss Bettina so much and will cherish all of our wonderful memories forever.